你关心一个学生吗?

• 学业成绩的下降
• 行为上的巨大变化
• 体重增加或减少
• 口齿不清或思维混乱
• 上课睡觉
• 个人卫生不良
• Repeated hangover or other signs of drug or alcohol use
• Sadness, anxiety, irritability, depression, poor concentration
• 过度依赖你
• 不稳定的情绪反应
• 公开提及自杀或伤害他人
• Is the main focus of other student's complaints or concerns
• Repeatedly requests deadline extensions or begins missing classes/meetings
• 暗指骚扰或攻击
• 屡次违反社区行为规范
• 破坏类

Knowing where to refer to students is sometimes difficult, 作为学术, 行为, 精神问题经常会同时出现.  如果有人的生命受到威胁, 在这种情况下，你应该拨打911, you can refer a student to Counseling or 学术顾问, 然后谁可以发起其他转介, 如果有必要的话. 为您提供推荐，您应该:

• Tell students that "there are several places you can go on campus for help, including the Dean of 学生发展与校园生活, 学术顾问, 及谘询服务."
• Reassure the student that it is an act of strength to ask for help after all. 避免面对问题要容易得多.
• Dismiss the myth that only "weak or crazy" people turn to others for help. In fact many students use 咨询服务 every year. That doesn't include the students who go elsewhere on campus for help.
• 如果你推荐学生去咨询服务, remind them that counseling services are free and confidential: they are NOT part of the student's academic record.
• Offer to help make the initial contact with the Dean of 学生发展与校园生活, 住宿生活办公室, 学术顾问, or 咨询服务: you can make a phone call together to set up an appointment or walk the student to the appropriate office.

While you don't want to intrude into a student's personal life, it's OK to follow up later (and may make the student feel better) by saying something, “我希望你最近过得好些."